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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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❤️ 100 Couples Share Their Best Marriage Advice

We're always amazed by the collective wisdom of the ONE Family. Recently, we asked you all for your best marriage advice.... and you delivered! Nearly 100 couples responded, representing over 1,000 total years of marriage experience. 🤯 From simple communication tips to crucial intimacy reminders, today's article is filled with wisdom you’ll want to revisit again and again. Love you guys, Tony & Alisa New Article When we asked for your best marriage advice, nearly 100 of you responded,...

If you've been part of the ONE Family for a while, you've heard us talk about sex challenges. Each time we do one, we're amazed by how much changes in every part of our marriage... It's about so much more than sex! Of course, there's a little holiday flare you can add to a sex challenge if you start one this month 😉 So in today's article, we're sharing some extra fun ideas to help you enjoy your very own Christmas 7 Day Sex Challenge. 🎄 Love you guys, Tony & Alisa New Article The holiday...

Only 13% of the ONE Family say their Spiritual Intimacy Pillar is where they want it to be. If you're part of the 87% desiring deeper spiritual intimacy with your spouse, we have a challenge for you. For the next 10 days, pray over your spouse and your marriage. Set aside a few minutes, talk with God, and be intentional about strengthening this pillar of your marriage (even if you're doing it alone). To help you out, we've created a simple 10 Day Prayer Challenge that you can start today!...

Over the summer, we celebrated 30 years of knowing each other. ❤️ 30 years since our first date. ❤️ 30 years since our first kiss. ❤️ And last month was our 28th anniversary. As we get ready to celebrate Thanksgiving, we wanted to reflect on everything we've been through these last three decades... So we wrote down 28 things we're grateful for after 28 years of marriage. Click here to read the list. Love you guys, Tony & Alisa New Article As we reflect on the last 28 years of marriage, we...

Holidays start to look a little different once your kids grow up... For many couples, it's bittersweet—or just plain hard. But imagine what would happen if you and your spouse chose to exchange presents that help you embrace your empty nest this year! We've curated the top 12 gift ideas for couples who are navigating the transition to an empty nest. From scratch off date ideas and intimate massage cream to hobby kits and travel maps, there's something for everyone on this list! Love you guys,...

Husbands... Christmas is coming. We know it can be tricky to find the perfect gift for your wife, especially if she's dealing with hormone shifts and symptoms caused by perimenopause. If you're looking for gifts that can help with that, we have good news! We've rounded up the top gifts that wives in the ONE Family have recommended to help your wife feel comforted, cherished, and confident throughout this stage of life. Check out all 20 menopause gift ideas here! Love you guys, Tony & Alisa...

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Best of the Month Check out the top content from this month, including today's NEW article 👇 NEW: Honey Do or Honey Don’t? Discover the pros and cons of a "Honey Do List"—and whether it's right for your marriage. Read article Episode 828 Hot flashes and cold truths! Here's why you need to talk about menopause... Listen now The 6 Pillars at Sea Our Last-Ever Marriage Getaway Register Now Common Date Mistakes to Avoid Bad manners and boring conversations? Yikes. Read article Spice Things Up A...

When you've been married for a while, two things tend to happen... #1 - Dates become less frequent than in your early relationship days. And if you do manage to get a date on the calendar... #2 - Bad habits can quickly sour the evening. You and your spouse deserve fun dates to reconnect! So don't let unconscious behavior ruin your time together. Check out today's article for 5 common mistakes to avoid on your next date Love you guys, Tony & Alisa New Article Imagine this: You’re finally...

Want better sex? It might be time to change your perspective... literally! For the last several years, sex furniture has been a tool in our marriage toolbox. 🛠️ It's an exciting and fun way to enhance our sexual intimacy and switch things up from time to time. If you're not sure how to bring up this conversation with your spouse (or find the right style of sex furniture for you), you'll want to check out today's article. Love you guys, Tony & Alisa New Article Throughout your marriage, the...

In the early years of our marriage, we didn't really discuss faith, religion, or spirituality. It was a non-factor in our marriage until late 2000 when Tony hiked the Pacific Crest Trail. While he was hiking, we both had separate, powerful experiences that led us to explore what spiritual intimacy looked like for us as a couple. Maybe you can relate to spiritual intimacy feeling like a non-starter in your marriage too... Or maybe your faith is already a strong foundation to your marriage......