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🥵 Sexy Ways to Beat the Heat

Published 2 months ago • 3 min read

Summer officially starts tomorrow, and you know what that means: Heat waves. Vacations. Packed schedules.

Wherever you are, the temps are beginning to rise.

And let's be honest...

When you're both melting, sex can be the last thing on your mind.

The great thing about summer is that it can force you to slow down and find new ways to connect (without overheating).

We've discovered 11 surprisingly effective ways to cool down together that will actually bring you closer than ever.

👉 Click here to read now​

Love you guys,

Tony & Alisa

P.S. Tomorrow is Alisa's birthday… and we've got something special to store to celebrate 🎉 Keep your eyes peeled!

Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of the ONE Family attends church services together as a couple?

A. 10%

B. 32%

C. 54%

D. 77%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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Summer heat doesn’t have to put a damper on your intimacy!

While steamy sex might feel overwhelming when temps soar into triple digits, there’s something fun and romantic about finding creative ways to cool off together.

Think of hot summer days as an invitation to explore new dimensions of your relationship.

When you’re both seeking relief from the heat, you’re naturally drawn together in a shared experience.

And that’s where the magic happens!

​11 Awesome Ways to Beat the Heat >>​

Hotter Temps, Hotter Sex

🔥 Ready to add more sizzle to your sex life this summer?

Sex furniture is the perfect way to explore new levels of sexual intimacy without any pressure or awkwardness.

Think of it as beautiful, functional furniture that just happens to make everything feel incredible!

Top picks from the ONE Family:

🧡 Flip Ramp: Doubles as a stylish ottoman for discreet storage

💜 Wedge Ramp Combo: Perfect support and angles for mind-blowing connection

💙 Jaz Motion: Compact, travel-ready, with a gentle rocking motion

🖤 Esse Chaise: The ultimate luxury upgrade for your bedroom

Tip: Want to keep things clean, even during a quickie? The plush, waterproof Fascinator Throw is perfect for mess-free fun anywhere!

Why couples love it:

✅ Better angles, deeper connection, amazing support

✅ Some pieces blend in like regular furniture

✅ Others transform your bedroom into a sexy adventure zone

✅ A game-changer for height differences or physical comfort

✅ Exploring together builds incredible connection

Start small or go all in! Either way, this is one hot way to heat things up this summer. ☀️

P.S. Not sure your spouse is up for trying sex furniture? This article can help get the conversation started.​

Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of the ONE Family attends church services together as a couple?

A. 10%

B. 32%

C. 54%

D. 77%

Spiritual intimacy is an area of life that many consider very individual; however, in marriage, you and your spouse are one.

If you are dealing with something, it will affect your spouse.

This is true even in the area of spiritual intimacy.

Regardless of your religion (or whether you consider yourself religious at all), spiritual intimacy is an important part of a long-lasting marriage.

What’s most important is for you and your spouse to define what the Spiritual Intimacy Pillar looks like to you.

Each couple is unique, and your upbringing and experiences will influence how you approach spiritual intimacy.

Ultimately, the two of you must be intentional about making spiritual intimacy a priority.

​5 ways to prioritize spiritual intimacy >> ​

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now​​
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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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