Low libido can show up at any time.

But the more I talk with couples going through hormonal changes, the more I see how unhelpful some of the common advice can be:

"Just use more lube."

"It's all in your head."

When your hormones are all over the place and you feel like a stranger in your own body, those one-liners don’t cut it.

You need real insight into what’s happening, plus proven ideas for what you can actually do about it.

That’s what today’s article covers. Because your desire matters, and you don’t have to figure this out alone.

👉 Click here to read now​

Love you guys,

Tony & Alisa

Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of the ONE Family says that their pet sometimes seems more important than the marriage?

A. 15%

B. 35%

C. 55%

D. 75%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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For years, sexual intimacy felt easy…

Spontaneous kisses in the kitchen, late-night laughter turning into something more.

But somewhere along the way, things changed. One wife shared how she started avoiding her husband’s touch without even realizing it. Another joked that her sex drive packed its bags and left without warning.

If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Low libido during menopause is a common challenge many wives face.

And yet, they don’t know where to turn for solutions to naturally get their libido back.

​12 Natural Ways to Boost Libido During Menopause >>​

Here's the truth about menopause that nobody seems to be talking about:

• 65% of us feel completely underprepared for this season
• 85% of us will experience at least one menopause symptom
• 33% or more of your beautiful life will be spent in peri- or post-menopause

Understanding this journey changes EVERYTHING.

When you're equipped with knowledge and support, you can feel confident, empowered, and truly seen during every step of this transition.

But trying to "push through" alone? Oh friend, I've heard the heartache:

• "I feel so isolated and overwhelmed."
• "My husband and I feel like we're speaking different languages."
• "I don't know what questions to ask my doctor."
• "Some days I don't even recognize myself anymore."

My heart breaks hearing these stories, and I absolutely refuse to let that be YOUR story.

That's why I created ​Menopause Shouldn't Suck​—because, well, it shouldn't!

This isn't just a program; it's a complete support system where you'll find expert guidance and an incredible community of women walking this same path.

Together, we'll navigate your physical symptoms, emotional wellbeing, and the impact on your marriage.

"Menopause Shouldn't Suck came into my life at such a perfect time! To know you are not alone is everything!" —Shana H.

Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of the ONE Family says that their pet sometimes seems more important than the marriage?

A. 15%

B. 35%

C. 55%

D. 75%

Owning a pet can add joy and happiness to your marriage. There are plenty of benefits, such as spending time with your spouse while walking the dog, sharing the responsibilities of caring for the cat, and more.

But what happens when the pet becomes a higher priority than your marriage?

35% of you said that sometimes it seems like your pet is more important than your marriage.

If you’d rather spend time with your furry friend than your spouse, it’s time to address the cracks in your 6 Pillars of Intimacy®.

​What to do when your spouse says, "It's me or the dog" >>​

​When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...​

1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now​​
3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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