🤐 When the "D" Word Slips Out


Divorce.

There was a point in our marriage where it was a very real possibility.

Even now, I (Alisa) can vividly recall the emotions we felt during those valley seasons...

Deep hurt, broken trust, shattered connection.

We had the same dysfunctional arguments on repeat. Busy schedules and little kids became our go-to excuse for a stale bedroom.

In my last 13+ years as a marriage coach, I've seen so many of the same warning signs come up.

There are clear signals when divorce is approaching, and recognizing them early can save your relationship.

We believe wholeheartedly that your marriage is WORTH fighting for. But it may be one of the hardest battles you'll ever face.

That's why today's article outlines the top 5 divorce warning signs with IMMEDIATE actionable advice to turn things around.

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Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of people in the ONE Family see a difference between DESIRE and AROUSAL?

A. 33%

B. 54%

C. 75%

D. 96%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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Divorce costs more than money.

There are countless “silent” costs that many couples don’t consider until they’re living through them: the pain of “split holidays” on your children, moving out of your family home, or the heartache of watching your spouse begin new relationships.

Many divorce signs​ are just as silent and painful.

While love is one of the most challenging things to fight for, it is ALWAYS worth it.

Let's look at the top five warning signs that your marriage might be heading toward divorce, along with practical strategies you can implement immediately.

The top 5 divorce warning signs >>

Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of people in the ONE Family see a difference between DESIRE and AROUSAL?

A. 33%

B. 54%

C. 75%

D. 96%

Desire. The word comes up all the time when people talk about sexual intimacy.

There’s responsive desire, spontaneous desire, low desire, high desire…

But desire is only half of the equation. It’s equally important to know what creates arousal in your spouse.

Think of it this way:

Desire is the mind saying, “I want sex.”

Arousal is the body saying, “I want sex.”

At times, those two things might work together like a well-oiled machine. You have a thought, your body responds, and off the two of you go!

But for many couples, it’s not always that easy.

Here are 9+ ideas to boost arousal >>

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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