The older we get, the more we realize that “normal” doesn’t mean optimal.

It’s “normal” for couples to…

💔 Feel disconnected

🏠 Drift into roommate mode

💬 Or even split up altogether

But extraordinary couples don't settle for "normal" in their marriage.

And the same goes for your health.

Labs might come back “normal,” but if you're dealing with irritability, fatigue, or low libido, it is affecting your relationship.

You don’t have to settle. You deserve to feel amazing in your body and in your marriage.

Today’s article unpacks the hidden midlife health shifts that could be messing with your connection and how to work through them as a team, even if the doctors say you’re “fine.”

👉 Click here to read now​

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family say that their usual kiss is just a quick peck?

A. 60%

B. 73%

C. 86%

D. 99%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

What to Do When Your Spouse Shuts Down

Divorce rates are higher than ever.

For many couples, it doesn’t come from a lack of love, but from something deeper: Entrenchment.

It's a silent dynamic where one spouse becomes distant, closed off, and convinced that leaving is the only way forward.

The more you plead, reason, or remind them of your shared history, the more they shut down.

It feels personal. But it’s not.

This is the Entrenchment Effect, and most couples have never been taught how to recognize or reverse it.

But it's not too late. You just need the right tools.

The "I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You" Masterclass will show you exactly how to disentrench your spouse and reconnect without begging, blaming, or losing yourself in the process.

You’ll learn a proven system that shifts the dynamic and puts real power back in your hands.

Because your marriage deserves a fighting chance. And you deserve to know what’s actually going on before it’s too late.

Register for the on-demand replay now and take the first step toward turning things around.

New Article

One of the most difficult parts of aging (whether perimenopause for wives or andropause for husbands) is that lab results often don't reflect what you're actually feeling.

Many couples in midlife find themselves confused and frustrated by medical tests that come back "normal" when something feels off.

Whether it's physical discomfort, emotional changes, or decreased libido, these invisible shifts can create tension in your marriage.

To make matters worse, you might feel like your doctor dismisses your concerns.

But hidden midlife health issues don't have to pull the two of you apart.

​Here's how to optimize your health for an extraordinary marriage >>​

Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family say that their usual kiss is just a quick peck?

A. 60%

B. 73%

C. 86%

D. 99%

We asked: Is your usual kiss deep and sensual or a quick peck?

And 73% of you said "quick peck."

We get it.

Over time, there can also be a lack of intentionality about kissing between the two of you.

Your kissing patterns can become routine, less passionate, or even more passionate.

No matter where you may be on the kissing spectrum, it’s a great time to explore how you can connect through kissing!

​Listen to "The Kissing Game" Series >>​

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
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3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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