Want a stronger marriage? Start with your lips 💑


In the chaos of everyday life, sometimes the simplest things make the biggest difference in your marriage.

In today's article, we're sharing why those quick pecks goodbye aren't enough—and how intentional kissing can actually transform your relationship! 💋

We've included the infamous 6-second kiss technique, plus a few other simple practices that take just minutes but delivers big results.

No complicated strategies, just practical tips you can start using tonight!

👉 Click here to read now

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

Today's Trivia

Question: Research shows that approximately what percentage of marriages experience infidelity?

A. 15%

B. 20%

C. 25%

D. 30%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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There’s a beautiful quote by Levende Waters that says, “A kiss seals two souls for a moment in time.

And that’s just one of the many benefits of kissing!
You're probably thinking, "I kiss my spouse all the time!"

But let's be honest, we're not talking about that quick peck on the lips before rushing off to your next commitment.

We're talking about those kisses where your lips and tongues connect and create fireworks inside of you.

Remember those passionate kisses when you first met? For many couples, those have been replaced with quick, passionless pecks.

Let's change that today!

💋 Here are 5 surprising benefits of kissing (with specific tips!)

Break Through the Disconnect

Are you wondering where the connection went in your marriage?

Most men don't need more generic advice—they need a translator who understands both sides.

My husband-focused coaching helps you:

  • Decode what your wife is really saying when her words and actions seem opposite
  • Navigate emotional conversations without feeling ambushed or shutting down
  • Break free from roommate syndrome and rebuild connection
  • Create the leadership dynamic your marriage needs without steamrolling or withdrawing
  • Develop confidence in addressing difficult topics that keep getting postponed

I focus exclusively on what works for husbands.

My approach gives you specific, actionable strategies that respect your communication style while creating the connection your wife craves.

Ready to transform your marriage instead of just guessing?

Today's Trivia Answer

Question: Research shows that approximately what percentage of marriages experience infidelity? 💔

A. 15%

B. 20%

C. 25%

D. 30%

Infidelity doesn’t just happen. Affairs often occur when one spouse finds something that’s missing in the marriage with someone else.

Let's be clear: It is never okay to step out of your marriage because of a disconnect.

But it is essential to know how to protect your marriage from infidelity, even if you don’t think you need to worry about it.

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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