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🌵 Is vaginal dryness killing the mood?

Published 4 months ago • 2 min read

When vaginal dryness during menopause makes sex painful, it creates a ripple effect through your entire marriage.

Both of you feel it.

Wives who deal with it experience the physical pain. And husbands may feel the emotional rejection.

But we believe this common challenge doesn't have to define your sex life.

Today's article will give you practical steps to reclaim the emotional and sexual connection that makes your marriage extraordinary.

​Click here to read >>​

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family say that the wife usually plans dates?

A. 27%

B. 53%

C. 69%

D. 85%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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For many women, it starts slowly. A little discomfort here; a little less desire there. Vaginal dryness during menopause can affect women in all stages of midlife, but no one is talking about it!

I (Alisa) hear from wives who feel betrayed by their body and wonder if the intimate connection will ever feel good again.

Maybe you’ve been there too. Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause (GSM) affects around 15% of premenopausal women and up to 70% of postmenopausal women.

Odds are, you or someone you know will deal with this at some point, which means it will impact their marriage.

One of the most common symptoms of GSM is vaginal dryness.

With vaginal dryness during menopause affecting the most intimate areas of your marriage, it’s a conversation we need to normalize.

​Let's dive in >>​

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Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family say that the wife usually plans dates?

A. 27%

B. 53%

C. 69%

D. 85%

In the ONE Family, wives lead the charge in planning dates.

Ultimately, what works best in your marriage might not be what works best for another couple. With effort and intentionality, you can create a rhythm that makes you both feel loved and desired.

That said, it's important that both of you contribute to planning for recreational intimacy.

"But we're just so busy!"

We hear you. That's why we recommend micro-dates for connecting when life feels out of control.

​Here are 10+ micro-dates to try >>​

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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