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🤷 "My spouse isn't sure about toys"

Published 3 days ago • 2 min read

Someone in the ONE Family recently messaged us with a question that I know SO many of you have wondered about...

They wanted to talk to their spouse about sex toys but didn't know where to start. Even just saying the words out loud felt awkward...

Sound familiar?

Listen, we've been there too. Sex toys have enhanced our sexual intimacy in so many ways (more fun, creativity, and excitement just to name a few!).

But getting to that place of comfortability takes time. And yes, you'll probably have to push through some initial awkwardness together.

The good news is there are some really simple ways to break the ice and get this conversation started...

We're sharing our best tips in today's article 😉

👉 Click here to read now​

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family usually go to bed at the same time?

A. 35%

B. 55%

C. 75%

D. 95%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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New Article

Whether you’re newlywed or decades into marriage, introducing something new into the bedroom can pose a lot of questions.

What if it’s awkward?

Or what if my spouse isn’t open to the idea?

Sex toys can feel extra daunting, especially for “beginners” who have never used them before.

Nearly half of the married couples we surveyed said they haven’t tried sex toys.

But among the 52% who have, the results were anything but boring.

Read now to discover:

  • 3 ways to bring up the idea (without the awkwardness)
  • Unexpected benefits of sex toys
  • Our top tips for beginners

​Sex Toys for Beginners >> ​

Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family usually go to bed at the same time?

A. 35%

B. 55%

C. 75%

D. 95%

In the ONE Family, 75% of couples go to sleep at the same time.

You might not realize it, but your bedtime routine can be an incredible time to build connection with your spouse!

From taking off your clothes and brushing your teeth to sliding under the covers, every moment is a chance to deepen your intimacy.

​8 tips to make your bedtime routine extra special >> ​

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  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now​​
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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