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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in San Diego, CA.

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MAJOR marriage threat in your back pocket

Your phone has a lot of great features. 📲 It can store photos, help you navigate town, keep you connected with loved ones, and so much more. But what happens when your relationship with your smartphone becomes more important than your relationship with your spouse? In today's article, we're discussing the impact of phone addiction on your marriage. We'll also share some practical ways to set tech boundaries and restore intimacy if this has been a struggle for you. Love you guys, Tony & Alisa...

3 days ago • 3 min read

Mother's Day is coming up this weekend, so I (Tony) want to speak to the husbands. Men, there are countless ways to support your wife. But you might be overlooking one of the most important things: Praying for your wife. It's a powerful way to love her, support her, and deepen your spiritual intimacy with her (even if you're doing it alone). Not sure what to pray for? Check out today's article for 10 prayers to pray for your wife. Love you guys, Tony & Alisa New Article Dear husbands, Small...

10 days ago • 4 min read

Extraordinary couples take steps to strengthen all of their 6 Pillars of Intimacy®... including financial intimacy! Don't freak out yet. We know money conversations can be hard for lots of couples. But with consistent practice, you can hone your money conversation skills and turn this Pillar into a source of teamwork and intimacy. Not sure where to start? Check out today's article for 26 money conversation to have with your spouse for deeper financial intimacy. Love you guys, Tony & Alisa New...

17 days ago • 3 min read

We know it can sometimes be intimidating, but... Trying a new sex position could be the best thing you do for your marriage this week! And to help you out, we're sharing 3 new positions in today's article. Don't worry, our famous figurines (Pink & Floyd) will show you exactly how to get into position. Have fun! 😉 Love you guys, Tony & Alisa New Article Have things become a bit boring in the bedroom? When it comes to sexual intimacy, knowing what works well is a success. But eventually, it can...

24 days ago • 4 min read

This Saturday is a big day for a couple reasons. 1. It's National Husband Appreciation Day! Check out the article below for 33 creative ideas to celebrate your husband. 2. We'll be speaking at The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Masterclass in Brea, California. If you're in the Orange County area, we'd love to see you! Scroll down for more details. Love you guys, Tony & Alisa New Article National Husband Day—or Husband Appreciation Day—falls on the third Saturday in April. This year, that's April 20!...

about 1 month ago • 3 min read

Over the years, we've talked about how pornography has impacted our marriage. Many of you have shared your stories with us too. Pornography addiction is serious, and it can be incredibly hard to overcome. In this week's article, we share some signs and symptoms of porn addiction—and several resources to help you move forward together. Love you guys, Tony & Alisa New Article Pornography is rampant in our society. It’s easily accessible. And it’s easily hidden. Porn addiction can silently...

about 1 month ago • 4 min read

We love reading marriage books. 📖 It's a great way to increase your knowledge, learn new skills, and improve your relationship. (Bonus points if you read the book together as a couple!) The ONE Family loves marriage books too. And you all were kind enough to share your top recommendations with us. Check out today's article for 13 marriage books recommendations from the ONE Family! Love you guys, Tony & Alisa This Week's Article With so many incredible marriage books on the market, it can be...

about 2 months ago • 4 min read

Has your marriage ever felt... boring? It's natural to feel bored if you're doing the same things day after day. But it's not healthy to stay in that place forever. Extraordinary couples take action! Check out today's article for 15 ideas to help you shake up your marriage routine and beat boredom. Love you guys, Tony & Alisa P.S. We're testing a new ad feature in our emails that you may see from time to time. This Week's Article No one ever thinks their relationship will grow stale, but...

about 2 months ago • 3 min read
3 GREAT REASONS YOU SHOULD PRAY WITH YOUR SPOUSE

Listen, we know that spiritual intimacy doesn't sound sexy. It's usually one of the last pillars people think of when it comes to marriage and intimacy... But here's something else we know: As you grow old together, some sexual aspects of your relationship will dwindle. Medications, treatments, and supplements can only do so much. And when libido fades, hands folded together in prayer will take over. If your Spiritual Intimacy Pillar isn't where you want it to be, give today's article a quick...

about 2 months ago • 4 min read

Different sexual desires can be challenging for couples. There's all kinds of terms you can use: High desire / Low desire High sex drive / Low sex drive High libido / Low libido A term you might not have heard before is "responsive desire." Understanding responsive desire versus spontaneous desire may help you navigate your sexual differences with more confidence. Check out this week's article as we bust some myths about responsive desire and what it means for your marriage. Love you guys,...

2 months ago • 4 min read
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