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Sex After 70? 🤨

Hey Reader, A vibrant sex life isn't just for young newlyweds. Within The ONE Family, there are plenty of couples well into their 70s and beyond who actively engage in sexual intimacy in ways that are meaningful for their marriage. Now, it might look different than when they were younger... But that's the beauty of an expanded definition of sexual intimacy! You get to decide what it looks like so that you can make it a priority. ▶️ Click here to watch today's video 🤔 We're curious... How...

Hey Reader, Are you nicer to the grocery store cashier than you are to your spouse? Be honest... it happens more than we would like to admit. Common courtesy has a funny way of disappearing once we say "I do." We hold the door for a stranger... but let it slam in our spouse's face. We say please and thank you at the coffee shop... but forget those words at home. And that chips away at your emotional intimacy over time. In our new video, we are sharing some of the simplest ways to bring that...

Hey Reader, Is walking around naked a thing of the past in your marriage? Aging, stress, insecurity, or even a past comment can make it feel way too vulnerable to just be seen. But here is the thing: When there is safety and trust between you, walking around naked can become one of the simplest ways to reconnect. Today, we are sharing 3 reasons why you should try it, and how to start. ▶️ Click here to watch today's video 🤔 How comfortable are you being naked around your spouse? Share your...

Hey Reader, We are big fans of sexy board games. 🎲♟️🧩 They are one of the easiest, lowest-pressure ways to infuse your sex life with fun, romance, and laughter. And those three things do a whole lot for connection. In today's video, we are sharing: Our favorite sexy board games Why they can be such a game changer How to bring this up with your spouse (even if it feels a little awkward) ▶️ Click here to watch today's video 🤔 What could your sex life use a little more of right now? Share your...

Hey Reader, Most busy couples say they don’t have time for romance. But one of your simplest connection tools is probably already in your hand: your phone. A simple text with the right mix of sweet and spicy can remind your spouse they’re on your mind, bring playfulness into the day, and build anticipation for sexual intimacy. ▶️ Click here to watch today's video 🤔 Have you ever sent your spouse a flirty or sexy text? Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️ Love you guys,Tony & Alisa P.S. Feel...

Hey Reader, There is a topic that most couples would rather avoid altogether. And yet... it comes up too often in marriage coaching (and divorce court) to ignore. Money. Financial stress, debt, and financial infidelity are some of the most common cited reasons for a marriage ending. But money talks don't have to divide you. They can actually bring you closer together. ▶️ Click here to watch today's video 🤔 What is your biggest money challenge as a couple right now? Share your answer in the...

Hey Reader, We have asked this question before... and only half of you said you have tried using pillows, wedges, or ramps to enhance your sexual intimacy. Maybe you have never tried it because you did not know it could actually relieve pain.. or shake up positions that have gotten a little too familiar. Or maybe your spouse just is not sure about it yet. We cover all of that in today's video... including some products we have personally used for years. ▶️ Click here to watch today's video 🤔...

Hey Reader, You have heard Tony say it hundreds of times... on the podcast, at events, and every time he introduces me to someone new. "My beautiful wife Alisa." That is an intentional choice he made years ago to speak a positive word over me. And slowly, it changed the way I see myself. That is the power of what you speak over your spouse. We just dropped a new video with some great options to get you started. Go check it out! ▶️ Click here to watch today's video We're curious... what gets...

Hey Reader, Name something that relieves stress, improves your mood, strengthens your heart, and brings you closer to your spouse... Orgasms! (Yes, we are going there today 😉) And the benefits might actually surprise you. ▶️ Click here to watch today's video Give it a quick watch, and then let us know which orgasm benefit you love most! Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️ Love you guys,Tony & Alisa P.S. Need a quick refresher on some simple ways to turn your marriage from ordinary to...

Hey Reader, We hear it all the time from couples... "We have nothing to talk about." And when that is where you are, it is a slippery slope toward thinking your marriage is boring, unsatisfying, or worst of all... doomed. But here is the truth: A few well-timed questions can change everything. Watch our newest video for 5 questions you can ask each other this week and see what opens up. ▶️ Click here to watch today's video And we are curious... has this ever been you and your spouse? Share...