I (Alisa) can’t tell you how many nights I lie awake at 3 AM with my mind racing, drenched in sweat, staring at the ceiling. And then there’s Tony, sound asleep next to me. I feel that flash of frustration... Why doesn’t he have to deal with this? Except he does. Our bed turns into a sauna overnight, and as I toss and turn trying to get comfortable, it usually wakes him up too. So when morning comes, we're both exhausted (and probably not our best selves). This kind of sleep disruption can...
16 days ago • 3 min read
In the chaos of everyday life, sometimes the simplest things make the biggest difference in your marriage. In today's article, we're sharing why those quick pecks goodbye aren't enough—and how intentional kissing can actually transform your relationship! 💋 We've included the infamous 6-second kiss technique, plus a few other simple practices that take just minutes but delivers big results. No complicated strategies, just practical tips you can start using tonight! 👉 Click here to read now...
23 days ago • 2 min read
As I (Alisa) have worked with thousands of couples over the years, I've noticed that most wives feel like they have to "push through" the menopause season. The truth is that a woman will spend around 1/3 of her life in peri- or post-menopause. It shouldn't be miserable. And it doesn't have to be. In today's article, I'm sharing three specific habits that are game-changers for women who want to embrace the beauty that this season of life can bring. 👉 Click here to read now Love you guys,Tony &...
30 days ago • 3 min read
Feeling stuck in a sexual rut? Yeah, we've been there too. Plenty of times. So we know how frustrating and discouraging it can be... especially when you’re not even sure how it happened. The good news? A lot of couples fall into the same common traps, but with a few simple shifts, you can turn things around fast! 👉 Click here to read now Love you guys,Tony & Alisa New Article If you walked into marriage expecting a blazing sex life but found yourself feeling more frustrated than fulfilled,...
about 2 months ago • 2 min read
How often do you have one of these thoughts... I just want time for us. We’re too busy lately! The kids take so much of my energy and attention. I have nothing left to give my spouse... It feels like all we do is work... This week, I (Alisa) encourage you to do an honest audit of where your time is going. You have 168 hours every week. That's 10,080 minutes. If you spent just 1% of your week with your spouse, that would be about 15 minutes a day. What would change in your marriage if you made...
about 2 months ago • 2 min read
Over the years of working with couples, I (Alisa) have noticed something surprising… So many couples hesitate to try something new—not because they don’t want a better marriage, but because of all the ways it might go wrong. 💭 “What if my spouse doesn’t like what I suggest?”💭 “What if we try and it doesn’t work?”💭 “What if it just makes me feel even more rejected?” If that sounds familiar, you're not alone. But here’s the truth: The biggest risk in marriage is playing it safe. So… what if you...
2 months ago • 3 min read
Ever heard a marriage tip that sounded like pure genius? Something so simple and obvious that you thought, "This is it! This will change everything!" But then… you try it. And somehow, it just doesn’t work the way you expected. The truth is, not every marriage tip out there will work for your marriage. So what do you do when you've tried it all, but nothing seems to stick? That’s exactly what we’re diving into in today’s article. 👉 Click here to read now >> Love you guys,Tony & Alisa New...
3 months ago • 3 min read
Best of the Month Check out the top content from this month, including today's NEW article 👇 Go beyond flowers and chocolate! These fun gift ideas show your spouse they're truly special. Read article Episode 842 Let your spouse hear your sexual pleasure... Listen now Join Us At a Live Event! We're gearing up for some great events in February and March. Check below to see if we'll be at a church near you! Omaha, Nebraska February 14-15, 2025 — Strong Marriages Conference (Love Church)...
3 months ago • 1 min read
"On this day, I marry my best friend." Have you ever heard that at a wedding? It was something we heard a few years ago, and it prompted an interesting episode about the term "best friend" versus "lover." People prefer different terms for different reasons, and the words you use are up to you. But friendship is essential in any strong, beautiful marriage. And yet, friendship with your spouse is easy to lose sight of, especially if life feels crazy and you're just trying to stay afloat. So we...
3 months ago • 3 min read