Travel Better Together ✈️


Hey Reader,

We’re back from our 30th-anniversary trip, and let us tell you:

A great getaway starts long before you pack your bags!

In this quick video, we share the conversations that can help you plan a trip you’ll both enjoy (without financial stress or unmet expectations).

Whether you’re planning a quick weekend getaway or a bucket-list adventure, have these three conversations first.

▶️ Click here to watch the video

🤔 We're curious... How do you usually celebrated a milestone anniversary?

Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

P.S. If things have been feeling off in the bedroom lately, these 7 common mistakes may help explain why... and give you a simple place to start making changes.

National Conflict Resolution Day

Today is National Conflict Resolution Day.

If conflict has been creating tension, distance, or the same arguments on repeat in your marriage, this is a good day to do something about it.

Our book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Conflict Resolution, will help you:

  • Understand your conflict cycle
  • Recognize the patterns that keep showing up
  • Learn how to interrupt them before another disagreement turns into days of disconnection

You don’t have to keep having the same fight with the same ending.

Grab your copy today and start building a healthier way to handle conflict together.

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

If you walked into marriage expecting a blazing sex life but found yourself feeling more frustrated than fulfilled, you’re not alone.

Great sex doesn’t just happen.

It’s a skill built through intentionality, communication, and practice.

But many couples unknowingly make common bedroom mistakes that leave them feeling frustrated or disconnected.

The good news? Once you recognize these patterns, you can start making changes together.

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now​​
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

The ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show has a 4.6 average rating. Listen now on your favorite app.


Connect with us on social media

Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Ready to create the extraordinary marriage you've always wanted? Browse our recent emails below and subscribe so you never miss one!

Read more from Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Hey Reader, Two spouses can live in the same house and experience two very different marriages. One thinks, “We’re going through a difficult season.” While the other feels, “I’ve been trying to tell you for years.” In today's video, we share how silence and unanswered bids for connection can turn into emotional disconnection. ▶️ Click here to watch the video 🤔 We're curious... When something feels off in your marriage, what do you usually do? Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️ Love you...

Hey Reader, A few weeks ago, we talked about how keeping our eyes open created an unexpected intensity during sex. In today’s quick clip, we share: What we experienced in that moment Practical tips for bringing up eye contact with your spouse How to make it a low-pressure invitation to try something new ▶️ Click here to watch the video 🤔 We're curious... How do you usually feel when your spouse suggests trying something new in the bedroom? Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️ Love you...

Hey Reader, Recently, we had a conversation about what a “better” sex life looks like in our marriage right now. We realized that even a good sex life can slip into familiar routines. In today's short clip, you’ll hear us work through the question together—and get a simple way to start the conversation in your own marriage. ▶️ Click here to watch the video 🤔 We're curious... When you hear “a better sex life,” what comes to mind first? Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️ Love you guys,Tony...