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Well… that was intense 🔥

Published about 1 hour ago • 1 min read

Hey Reader,

A few weeks ago, we talked about how keeping our eyes open created an unexpected intensity during sex.

In today’s quick clip, we share:

  • What we experienced in that moment
  • Practical tips for bringing up eye contact with your spouse
  • How to make it a low-pressure invitation to try something new

▶️ Click here to watch the video

🤔 We're curious... How do you usually feel when your spouse suggests trying something new in the bedroom?

Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

P.S. Did you know there are at least 31 relationship holidays you can celebrate throughout the year? Take a look at the article below and add a few of your favorites to the calendar.

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

Your marriage is special, so celebrate it with these 31 relationship holidays!

Some days are silly. Others are serious.

But they all give you a reason to be intentional about your marriage. 

Upcoming relationship holidays include...

  • National I Love You Day
  • Conflict Resolution Day
  • National Sex Toy Day
  • World Hug Day

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