Hey Reader,

How does a tube of toothpaste turn into “You don’t respect me”?

It happens when a small habit starts feeling personal.

In this 3-minute clip, we share how the story you attach to your spouse’s behavior can create a much bigger argument.

(Watch before the next little annoyance gets under your skin!)

▶️ Click here to watch the clip​

P.S. We know it’s early, but the best time to talk about your Christmas budget is BEFORE you start spending. These 3 steps will help you protect your financial intimacy and avoid money fights this Christmas.​

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

It feels good to find the perfect Christmas gift for someone you love. You might also enjoy decorating your home, hosting family, or supporting a cause that’s close to your heart.

But those expenses can create tension in your marriage when you and your spouse have different expectations about holiday spending.

Before you start shopping, have a conversation about what you want Christmas to look like this year and how much you can afford to spend.

Our free Holiday Spending Planner will help you put those decisions on paper so you both know the plan.

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now​​
3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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