Hey Reader,

How do you respond when you ask your spouse a meaningful question…and they don’t have an answer?

That happened while we were recording an episode a few weeks ago, and we worked through it in real time.

It was a good reminder that it’s okay to need time before answering a deep question (and the spouse asking doesn’t have to take that hesitation personally).

▶️ Watch the interaction here

🤔 We're curious... Do you need time to think before answering deeper questions?

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Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

P.S. When was the last time you and your spouse talked about money beyond paying the bills? 💵 Read 26 Money Questions for Couples and pick one to talk about tonight.

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Here’s what we’ve learned after years of working with couples: financial intimacy isn’t optional. It’s essential.

When you ignore money conversations, you’re weakening every other area of your marriage.

These 26 money questions will help you build the financial foundation your relationship deserves.

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