Same House, Different Marriages


Hey Reader,

Two spouses can live in the same house and experience two very different marriages.

One thinks, “We’re going through a difficult season.”

While the other feels, “I’ve been trying to tell you for years.”

In today's video, we share how silence and unanswered bids for connection can turn into emotional disconnection.

▶️ Click here to watch the video

🤔 We're curious... When something feels off in your marriage, what do you usually do?

Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

P.S. Wives, today's article includes 10 specific prayers to pray over your husband. (There's a free guide you can download too!)

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

Wives, when was the last time you prayed specifically for your husband?

Not just a quick prayer for your marriage or your family, but a prayer for him:

  • His work
  • His health
  • His friendships
  • His faith
  • The decisions he is making
  • All the things he may be carrying that you don’t always see

As his wife, you know him in a way few other people do. You know what he is walking through, where he feels pressure, what he hopes for, and where he may need encouragement.

Prayer gives you a way to bring all of that before God.

It can also change the way you see your husband.

When there has been tension, disappointment, or distance between you, praying for him can help you slow down, listen to God, and consider your own heart and responses too.

If you’re not sure what to pray, start here.

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now​​
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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