When Sex Starts Feeling Familiar 🔄


Hey Reader,

Recently, we had a conversation about what a “better” sex life looks like in our marriage right now.

We realized that even a good sex life can slip into familiar routines.

In today's short clip, you’ll hear us work through the question together—and get a simple way to start the conversation in your own marriage.

▶️ Click here to watch the video

🤔 We're curious... When you hear “a better sex life,” what comes to mind first?

Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

P.S. Time apart from your spouse is inevitable at some point or another. Here are 3 special ways to stay connected, even when you're physically separated.

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

Whoever came up with the phrase “absence makes the heart grow fonder” must have been talking about their cat or dog.

For us, our hearts ache when there is physical distance in our marriage.

We miss the everyday things: being in the same room, sharing a meal, reaching for each other, and talking without having to look at the clock.

There may be times when you can find yourselves miles apart, in different time zones, and trying to stay connected from a distance, whether it's:

  • A business trip
  • Deployment
  • Relocation
  • Higher education
  • A mission trip
  • Or even a weekend away with friends

So what can you do when you have to spend time apart?

We put our 3 top tips in today's article ⤵️

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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