Hey Reader,

Most busy couples say they don’t have time for romance.

But one of your simplest connection tools is probably already in your hand: your phone.

A simple text with the right mix of sweet and spicy can remind your spouse they’re on your mind, bring playfulness into the day, and build anticipation for sexual intimacy.

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🤔 Have you ever sent your spouse a flirty or sexy text?

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Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

P.S. Feel like touch comes with the pressure to have sex? Here are 10 ways to build non-sexual physical intimacy.​

Have Hard Talks Without the Spiral

Do the same arguments keep coming up over and over?

You instantly think to yourself, "Here we go again."

Because you know what's about to happen:

One of you shuts down.
One of you pushes harder.
The tone changes.
You both get defensive.
And the conversation goes nowhere.

That’s why we created the Conflict Cycle Workshop.

Inside, you’ll learn how to:

• Recognize your conflict cycle before it spirals
• Understand the triggers behind your reactions
• Interrupt the shutdown, defensiveness, or escalation
• Use our 5-Step Conflict Cycle Resolution Tool
• Regroup and repair after a hard conversation

For this week only, you can get instant access for just $17. But this deal expires tomorrow night at midnight.

Your next hard conversation doesn’t have to end like the last one.

Move beyond stress-filled, teary disputes and learn a healthier way to handle conflict together ⤵️

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

When was the last time you and your spouse slow danced in the kitchen?

Held hands just because?

Cuddled on the couch without it leading anywhere else?

If you’re struggling to remember, your physical connection needs some serious TLC.

“But our sex life is fine.” Maybe that’s true.

Still, sexual intimacy and physical intimacy are not the same thing.

And we’ve seen over and over that a lack of physical intimacy (loving, non-sexual touch) eventually leads to disconnection in the bedroom.

When we last asked the ONE Family, nearly 80% of you said your marriage is not as physical as you expected or dreamed it would be.

Here are some ways to boost physical intimacy starting TODAY:

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now​​
3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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