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😳 85% struggle with this

Published about 1 month ago • 1 min read

Hey Reader,

A challenge many couples face is wanting more sexual intimacy... but not wanting to risk rejection or awkwardness.

Initiating sex is something over 85% of you say has been an obstacle at some point in your marriage.

That is why today's video is packed with simple and clever ways to initiate without awkwardness, rejection, or pressure.

▶️ Click here to watch today's video

🤔 We're curious... Do you and your spouse have a code word, emoji, or phrase to let each other know you're in the mood?

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Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

P.S. Wish you could get out of your normal routine, have some fun, and enjoy being together? Check out these 10 date ideas!​

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

You finally did it. You found a night that works, put it on the calendar, and the two of you are ready to spend some time together.

Then you get in the car and this happens:

Spouse: “What do you want to do?”

You: “I don’t know. What do you want to do?”

Spouse: “Whatever you want is fine with me. Pick something.”

You: “But I want to do what you want to do.”

And now you’re both getting frustrated before you’ve even left the driveway.

Sound familiar?

Date nights are supposed to help you reconnect, not turn into another decision you have to make.

And they don't have to be elaborate or expensive.

These 10 date ideas can help you get out of your normal routine, have some fun, and enjoy being together.

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now​​
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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