Nicer to strangers than your spouse?


Hey Reader,

Are you nicer to the grocery store cashier than you are to your spouse?

Be honest... it happens more than we would like to admit.

Common courtesy has a funny way of disappearing once we say "I do."

We hold the door for a stranger... but let it slam in our spouse's face.

We say please and thank you at the coffee shop... but forget those words at home.

And that chips away at your emotional intimacy over time.

In our new video, we are sharing some of the simplest ways to bring that kindness and consideration back into your marriage.

▶️ Click here to watch today's video

🤔 When life gets busy, which common courtesy disappears first in your marriage?

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Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

P.S. Need to boost your recreational intimacy without breaking the bank? Here are 15 cheap (yet fun!) date ideas.

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

Strong marriages are built on quality time together, and that doesn’t require a big budget.

These cheap date night ideas will help you strengthen your recreational intimacy and create memories that last a lifetime, all without breaking the bank.

🤫 Sneak peak of some ideas included in the list:

  • Dream Vacation Planning Night
  • Free Museum or Art Gallery Day
  • Dessert First Night
  • Mini Golf
  • Library Browse & Coffee
  • Jazz Night Out

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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