💳 Before the spending starts


Hey Reader,

Early in our marriage, there was one Christmas when good intentions and secret spending led to stress, hurt, and a painful financial hangover.

It changed the way we plan for the holidays, especially when it comes to money.

In today’s video, we’re giving you a head start on your holiday spending plan so you can avoid debt, secrecy, and regret and simply enjoy time with the people you love.

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🤔 Be honest... When do you start thinking about the holiday budget?

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Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

P.S. Grab our FREE Holiday Spending Planner and get a handle on your holiday spending before the holidays arrive. They’ll be here before you know it!

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

When you think about success (not just marriage success), what comes to mind?

Is it the beautiful house on the golf course?

The Ferrari in the garage?

Maybe it’s a two-week vacation in the Caribbean or a condo in the mountains.

In the world we live in, these may all be signs of success.

And yet, if your marriage isn’t filled with passion, romance, and intimacy, do any of them really matter?

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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