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Ever heard a marriage tip that sounded like pure genius? Something so simple and obvious that you thought, "This is it! This will change everything!"

But then… you try it. And somehow, it just doesn’t work the way you expected.

The truth is, not every marriage tip out there will work for your marriage.

So what do you do when you've tried it all, but nothing seems to stick?

That’s exactly what we’re diving into in today’s article.

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Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

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You love your spouse, but something feels off.

Maybe the two of you have drifted into a routine of logistics and small talk.

Tension might be lingering under the surface, turning simple conversations into frustrating arguments.

Or perhaps you’ve tried some DIY marriage fixes like date nights or relationship books, but you keep finding yourself back in the same cycles.

If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone.

Many couples reach a point where their best efforts aren’t moving the needle. But that doesn’t mean your marriage is broken.

It means it’s time to approach things differently—with intention, strategy, and the right support.

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Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of couples say the husband usually initiates sexual intimacy?

A. 41%

B. 60%

C. 79%

D. 98%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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4 Ways to Make Valentine's Day Special This Year

For many couples, the meaning of Valentine's Day has been lost in overly priced cards and expectations that have us focusing on superficial things we’re told represent love.

What if Valentine’s became a day where you focused on you and your spouse and moved beyond gifts and flowers?

Here are a few ways to truly celebrate love and build intimacy as a couple beyond what popular culture tells you to do:

1. Create a Vision Board for Your Future

Clip pictures from a magazine, print them out, or draw them. You can also use words you want to focus on as part of your vision.

What better way to remind yourselves daily of your goals for the future?

2. Build Your Own Romance Calendar

Instead of one night of gifts and a fancy meal, what would it look like if you plan a season of romance?

Brainstorm what you can do once a week, once a month, and once a year that speaks romance to the two of you.

3. Vow to Celebrate on any Other Day but the 14th

You’ve been told that your biggest display of LOVE should be on February 14th. So do something different and celebrate on February 4th or even March 4th.

Take a stand as a couple that you don’t need to be told when to celebrate love.

4. Be Bold

Make February 14th the day each year that you do something BOLD together. Go to one of those indoor skydiving places, eat ice cream for dinner or have sex outside in a tent in the backyard.

Instead of doing what you’re told for Valentine’s Day, do something bold!

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Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of couples say the husband usually initiates sexual intimacy?

A. 41%

B. 60%

C. 79%

D. 98%

There are no rules about who should initiate sexual intimacy in your marriage. But knowing how to initiate sex in your marriage can be a very real challenge.

A study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that in more than 60% of the couples surveyed, men initiated sex more often than women.

Both men and women struggle when it comes to know how to initiate sex.

In fact, 87% of the ONE Family say there has been a time when they struggled to initiate sex with their spouse.

When only one of you is initiating or when neither of you is initiating sex, it’s time to take a look at what is going on between the two of you.

Here are some tips to build confidence so you can initiate more >>

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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