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There's no two ways about it... launching your kids into the world is emotional!

Sure, you might have daydreamed about becoming empty nesters when you were changing diapers or managing meltdowns.

But when it finally comes around, helping your kid move out is hard.

And the transition will put a unique strain on your marriage if you don't know what to expect.

In today's article, we're sharing 5 tips to thrive as a couple during the empty nest transition.

Love you guys,

Tony & Alisa

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With back-to-school season right around the corner, many parents will soon wave goodbye as their kids head off to college.

As your young adult begins a new chapter living away from home, you and your spouse will also enter a new season as empty nesters.

While the transition to empty nesters can be exciting, it can also feel overwhelming.

However, with a little intentionality, you can navigate this transition as a team and discover new opportunities to strengthen your intimacy.

Today's Trivia

Question: Among the ONE Family, what percentage of couples say the husband has the higher sexual drive?

A. 38%

B. 55%

C. 72%

D. 89%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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Today's Trivia Answer

Question: Among the ONE Family, what percentage of couples say the husband has the higher sexual drive?

A. 38%

B. 55%

C. 72%

D. 89%

When we asked the ONE Family which spouse has the higher sexual drive in your marriage, 72% of you said, "the husband."

But what exactly is desire?

For many, it can be defined as a longing, a craving.

Within marriage, it’s often used regarding sexual appetite.

It’s the identification as the “low desire spouse” or the “high desire spouse” that can create an environment full of:

  • Bitterness
  • Resentment
  • Anger
  • Guilt
  • Frustration

Why do variations in desire even happen?

Well, men and women are wired differently.

❗ There are high desire women and low desire men just as there are low desire women and high desire men.

High desire refers to the person who wants sexual connection/sexual intimacy more than the other.

One myth however that needs to be destroyed is that it’s always the same person who will have high desire or low desire.

Let's address some common sex drive myths so you can enjoy deeper sexual intimacy ⤵️

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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