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A 10-Second Question for You 👀

Published about 2 months ago • 1 min read

Hey Reader, we're so excited to kick off 2026 with a new way to connect with you!

On Thursdays, we'll be coming to you with short, practical videos you won't find anywhere else. Click below to watch today's video ▶️

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This is our chance to get personal, share what we're seeing in marriages, and give you simple thoughts or action steps you can take this week.

We want to hear from you ⬇️ Check out the poll below to share your thoughts on what's stealing your connection most.

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

Catch Us Live in 2026

Check out our upcoming speaking engagements in February 2026:

Hillsboro, Ohio

February 21, 2026 — The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Masterclass (Hillsboro Bible Baptist)

Farmville, Louisiana

February 27-28, 2026 — The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Weekend Conference (Farmville Assembly of God)

We'll share the registration links as soon as they become available!

Curious about how to bring an event like this to your own church? Fill out the form here ⤵️

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

You have 168 hours in a week.

If you took a hard look at your schedule, how many of those hours are actually spent enjoying quality time with your spouse?

For many couples, the number is shockingly low.

At the core of all these thoughts is a simple truth: a lack of quality time. In our fast-paced culture, it’s often the first thing to go.

And that’s a dangerous slope.

When you lose quality time, you lose connection with your spouse. When connection fades, relationships suffer.

If this sounds familiar, check out this article with three ways to reclaim your time and invest it where it truly matters: your marriage.

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now​​
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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