Hey Reader,

With Valentine's just two days away... is sex on the mind?

Early in our marriage, Valentine's Day was one of the few days Tony could count on for sexual intimacy. But what about you?

Click below to watch today's video ▶️

Remember that Valentine's Day is only 1 day out of 365 days.

No matter what happens on Saturday, it's those other 364 days that really build deeper connection.

Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

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Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

"Scheduling sex? Who does that?"

If that thought crossed your mind when you opened this email, here's what we want you to know:

1. If you wait for sex to happen "spontaneously," you'll probably be waiting a lot longer than you want. Extraordinary couples are intentional about their sexual intimacy.
2. Scheduling sex can actually build more excitement and anticipation! When you know it's coming, you can look forward to it all day.
3. When life gets busy, sex often falls to the back burner. The Intimacy Lifestyle is a way to decide the frequency and initiation techniques that work best for you so sexual intimacy stays a priority.

Ready to give it a try? Start here:

🎧 What is the Intimacy Lifestyle? (Listen)​ →​

📰 21 Ways To Initiate Sex With Your Spouse (Read) →​

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When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
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