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You're juggling work, kids, and a million responsibilities. The last thing you need is your spouse hiding purchases or arguing about every dollar spent.

But here's the brutal truth: financial problems fuel 20-40% of all divorces.

Sound familiar?

  • Heated arguments over money decisions
  • Secret spending behind each other's backs
  • Hidden debt that suddenly surfaces
  • Constant tension about financial priorities

These money issues don't solve themselves.

The fastest way to protect your marriage is to get it out in the open with honest conversation. 💸

Yes, it'll feel awkward at first. No, it won't be easy to fit into your packed schedule.

But 10 minutes of financial transparency beats 10 years of resentment.

Read the full article now and stop letting money come between you and the person you love most.

Love you guys,

Tony & Alisa

P.S. Did you know the hormones from fighting are almost identical to the ones during orgasm 😉 If you've ever argued about money, check out the trivia below to see how to redirect that passion somewhere better.

Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family have had make up sex before?

A. 21%

B. 43%

C. 65%

D. 87%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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Here’s what we’ve learned after years of working with couples: financial intimacy isn’t optional. It’s essential.

When you ignore money conversations, you’re weakening every other area of your marriage.

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Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family have had make up sex before?

A. 21%

B. 43%

C. 65%

D. 87%

Question: Do you use make up sex (and 65% of you do) as a temporary band-aid or an effective tool for growth?

Sex is a powerful connection, and especially after an argument when you each have heightened emotions and hormones, sex can become all the more potent.

But watch out. If not wielded wisely, sexual intimacy at this time can do more long-term damage than restoration.

🤔 When is make up sex helpful vs hurtful?

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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