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🎁 20 gifts to WOW your wife

Published 2 months ago • 2 min read

With just 5 weeks until Christmas, now's the time to start thinking about gifts that show your spouse you truly see them.

Husbands: If your wife is navigating menopause, this season of life comes with real physical changes. And a thoughtful gift can make a meaningful difference in how she feels every day.

Our Menopause Gift Guide is filled with practical, beautiful options designed to help her feel comfortable, confident, and cared for during this transition.

​View the Menopause Gift Guide >>​

Wives: Don't leave him guessing! Share the link and let him know what would actually make you smile on Christmas morning.

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

P.S. If you've ever felt like your sex life goes on vacation during the holidays, make sure you check out the trivia answer 👀

Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of the ONE Family feels like they have challenges with sexual intimacy during the holiday season?

A. 25%

B. 50%

C. 75%

D. 100%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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Looking to pamper your wife this Christmas? Want gifts that help her feel like her best?

These menopause gifts are perfect for the midlife wife, curated based on ideas from real wives in the ONE Family!

From cooling sheets to soothing balms and indulgent self-care items, this gift guide includes items to make perimenopause a little easier.

Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of the ONE Family feels like they have challenges with sexual intimacy during the holiday season?

A. 25%

B. 50%

C. 75%

D. 100%

When we asked the ONE Family, one in four couples said they feel like they they have challenges with sexual intimacy during the holiday season.

This time of year is supposed to be magical, but it can also make you feel like you're in "survival mode."

You keep telling yourself you simply need to get through the season and then it will be okay.

But here's the truth: YOU are placing all of this pressure on yourself.

And what you are doing now is actually setting the tone for the beginning of the new year.

🎄 Let's talk about how to make holiday sex a priority! ​

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now​​
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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