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Time to bring the fun back 😉

Published about 2 months ago • 1 min read

Hey Reader,

Are you having fun with everyone except your spouse?

Sure, you talk with your spouse... and kiss, discuss finances, and have sex.

But do you have fun together?

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For plenty of couples, fun is something you do with friends, colleagues, or on your own...

Is that what's happening in your marriage right now?

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Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

Date Your Spouse This Spring

These scratch-off date idea cards are for any couple who has ever said “What should we do tonight?”

Each surprise date is easy, doable, and delightfully different. They're designed to help you connect, laugh hard, and create the kind of nights you talk about years to come.

Every card includes helpful clues so you know what you’re getting into:

  • At-home dates
  • Out-and-about dates
  • And even budget-friendly dates.

Get ready to dive into spontaneous adventures you’ll actually look forward to!

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

The research is clear: couples who date weekly are 3.5 times more likely to report being happy in their relationship.

Monthly date nights reduce divorce probability by 14%.

Having fun with your spouse is crucial (and scientifically-backed). But we know it can be hard to keep coming up with fresh date ideas.

Click below for more date ideas to help you reconnect and strengthen your recreational intimacy:

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
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  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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