"We have nothing to talk about"


Hey Reader,

We hear it all the time from couples... "We have nothing to talk about."

And when that is where you are, it is a slippery slope toward thinking your marriage is boring, unsatisfying, or worst of all... doomed.

But here is the truth: A few well-timed questions can change everything.

Watch our newest video for 5 questions you can ask each other this week and see what opens up.

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And we are curious... has this ever been you and your spouse?

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Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

P.S. Today is National Day of Prayer 🙏 If you're not sure where to start, check out these 10 powerful prayers for your marriage.

Is Your Marriage on the Back Burner?

When was the last time you set aside time to improve your marriage?

You may have a gym membership for your health, you may get your hair done regularly, or you may have a Netflix subscription for entertainment...

But what are you doing to make your MOST important relationship a priority?

If you’d like to know how to:

  • Make marriage FUN again
  • Have more meaningful & creative date nights
  • Enjoy more passionate & pleasurable sex
  • Feel closer & more connected to your spouse
  • Navigate challenges of life together
  • Rekindle the SPARK

Then you need the 2026 Marriage Bundle!

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**But make sure you act now, because this bundle dissolves after May 17th.

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

Today is National Day of Prayer. Many couples want to pray for their spouse or their marriage, but they’re not always sure where to begin. Or maybe they used to pray together… but have fallen out of the habit.

This prayer challenge is a simple way to strengthen your spiritual intimacy. (Or even just read through a few prayers and pray them together today.)

And what better day to start than today? 💛

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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