Take the Alphabet Date Challenge!


Have you seen the recent trend called "Alphabet Dating?"

The concept is simple:

1️⃣ Pick a letter of the alphabet (or work in alphabetical order)

2️⃣ Do an activity that starts with that letter!

With alphabet dates, the options are truly endless.

But the best part is that you can keep moving through the alphabet to avoid getting stuck in a dating rut.

Check out this week's article for 78 alphabet date ideas to get you started.

Love you guys,

Tony & Alisa

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Spontaneous date nights sound great in theory, but how often can you really pull them off?

In reality, planning dates ensure you get time on the calendar for each other while also keeping your marriage fresh and exciting.

A great method for scheduling your recreational intimacy is thinking of alphabet date ideas.

The concept of Alphabet Dating is simple. As you plan dates, think about activities in alphabetical order.

You could focus on one letter each month and do multiple activities that start with that letter.

Or you could do one letter each week, which would let you go through the alphabet twice each year!

Dating your spouse is supposed to be fun.

With these alphabet date ideas, you can pick some things you’ve never done before, create new memories, and deepen your intimacy as a couple.

Now, let’s dive into some unique date ideas from A to Z 👇

Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family say they have gotten injured during sex?

A. 9%

B. 22%

C. 35%

D. 48%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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Quick Spiritual Intimacy Tips

Spiritual intimacy tends to be easy for couples to forget.

It might not seem as glamorous as a dinner date or as enticing as foreplay.

But all of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy are necessary for a strong, healthy, and beautiful marriage—including spiritual intimacy.

One way to make sure you’re keeping your spiritual intimacy strong is to pray together as a couple.

If you want to enhance your spiritual intimacy, here are three great reasons why you should pray with your spouse.

1. It’s the Most Intimate Way to Connect

Sex is amazing!

With that being said, praying together takes you into an even more intimate place than making love. This is huge!

So, learn how to pray with your spouse and make it a regular habit.

2. You Gain a Bigger Perspective on Life

Sometimes, it’s simply overwhelming to be honest about all that you have going on in your marriage.

You may be disgruntled, disconnected, and ready to consider another dreaded “d” word.

When you pray together, it can bring you back from the brink.

3. When You Pray, Things Happen

Everybody could use a few more “happy coincidences” and miracles in their life, especially in their marriage.

Answered prayers serve as anchored memories for you both.

The two of you have power when you pray together.

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Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family say they have gotten injured during sex?

A. 9%

B. 22%

C. 35%

D. 48%

Accidents happen... even in the bedroom.

In fact, almost half of the ONE Family says that they've gotten injured during sex before!

Some spouses have pulled muscles; others have smacked their heads on furniture.

Certain accidents leave spouses with a bloody nose, black eye, or rug burns.

People experience abrasions, cuts, scratches, and more. There are accidental kicks and headbutts.

Above all, the top sex injury is cramping, whether foot, leg, butt, arm, or otherwise.

Clearly, sex injuries are common amongst the ONE Family.

And many of them are unavoidable.

Do you know how to respond when this happens?

🤕 Here's our advice for how to handle injuries during sex.

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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