We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL
Hey Reader, With Valentine's just two days away... is sex on the mind? Early in our marriage, Valentine's Day was one of the few days Tony could count on for sexual intimacy. But what about you? Click below to watch today's video ▶️ Remember that Valentine's Day is only 1 day out of 365 days. No matter what happens on Saturday, it's those other 364 days that really build deeper connection. Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️ Love you guys,Tony & Alisa When it comes to Valentine’s Day sex,...
Hey Reader, Not every couple is in a crisis... But is your marriage functioning more like roommates than teammates? Click below to watch today's video ▶️ If this question hits close to home... Pick something from your routine that you usually do alone and do it with your spouse this week: Run an errand together Go on a walk-and-talk Watch the same show. It’s a small but powerful step toward being teammates again, not just roommates. Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️ Love you guys,Tony &...
Hey Reader, Have you heard this story? 🏈 Fernando Mendoza, the Indiana Hoosiers’ National Championship quarterback, just finished a 16–0 season. But what’s moved people most isn’t what happened on the field. Click below to watch today's video ▶️ During games, Fernando’s dad stays seated beside his wife, Elsa, who uses a wheelchair due to multiple sclerosis. Even during their son's biggest moments, he cheers alongside her in his seat because she can’t stand. It got us thinking... Are you...