Tomorrow is National Conflict Resolution Day.

It's not the most glamorous holiday, but it's absolutely vital for your marriage.

Obviously, you and your spouse are different people with different ideas, opinions, and preferences.

That means conflict is inevitable.

But it doesn't have to be dysfunctional, toxic, or destructive.

After coaching hundreds of couples, I noticed a clear conflict cycle that every couple goes through.

When you understand the cycle, you can interrupt it and stay connected... instead of stuffing things down, walking on eggshells, or fighting unfairly.

​Discover the 3 steps to handle conflict better >>​

Love you guys,

Tony & Alisa

Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of the ONE Family has kept a purchase a secret from their spouse?

A. 31%

B. 52%

C. 73%

D. 94%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

Featured Article

It’s common for couples to wonder how to handle conflict better in their marriage.

Conflict is an inevitable part of any relationship.

Whether it’s a minor disagreement or a major argument, couples often find themselves stuck in conflict cycles. However, conflict doesn’t have to destroy your marriage.

When you understand your dysfunctional conflict tendencies as a couple, you can make adjustments and repairs.

As a result, your marriage becomes a fun, safe, and loving relationship that can stand the test of time.

The good news? You can start handling conflict better today.

​Click here to read the article >>​

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Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of the ONE Family has kept a purchase a secret from their spouse?

A. 31%

B. 52%

C. 73%

D. 94%

Who keeps money secrets and why?

Some 52% of the ONE Family say that they have kept a purchase a secret from their spouse.

There’s definitely a crack in your financial intimacy pillar if there is harmful secret spending happening.

(And secret spending happens by both husbands and wives, by the way.)

What we are talking about is the spending that you keep from your spouse indefinitely. Not when you are buying them a secret birthday gift or planning a surprise vacation...

When there is secret spending going on, you may feel:

• Guilty
• Fearful of a spouse’s reaction
• Rebellious
• Shameful
• Embarrassed

When those emotions are present in your marriage, it’s not just your financial intimacy that’s being affected.

It puts your entire relationship at risk.

💰 Here's the real problem with secret spending >>​

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