🧠 Say what you’re thinking


Hey Reader,

For a lot of couples (including us!) there are moments when you think something really good about your spouse... and somehow it never makes it out of your mouth.

Recently on the podcast, we talked about the power of encouragement.

And there was one part of that conversation really stood out.

It came from a specific example in our own marriage and what the ONE Family said they most want to hear from their spouse.

▶️ Click here to watch the highlight video

🤔 We're curious... What encouraging phrase would mean the most to you?

Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

P.S. Spiritual intimacy is one of the 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, and yet many couples approach this part of life individually. See 5 simple ways to build spiritual intimacy.​

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Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

You know spiritual intimacy matters in your marriage.

You want to grow closer to God together.

But maybe you’ve never learned how to actually do faith as a couple, so it feels a little awkward to start.

Spirituality is deeply personal, but when you share it with your spouse, it creates a strong and intimate bond unlike anything else.

Let’s change the way you think about growing spiritually together.

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