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New Positions, Positive Words + More

Published 2 months ago • 1 min read

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3 New Sex Position Ideas

Try one of these creative positions to strengthen your closeness and connection.

47 Positive Words to Describe Your Spouse

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Feel Close Again Without Awkward Conversations

Most couples don’t need to talk more. They just need a better way to talk.

On December 28, we’re releasing a new emotional intimacy program designed for couples who want real conversations and genuine connection…

Communication Reset helps you move from polite, logistics-only check-ins to deeper emotional intimacy and closeness.

You’ll learn how to…

  • Share what’s really on your heart
  • Listen in ways that build safety and trust
  • Reconnect in the small, everyday moments

If 2026 is the year you want to feel close and united as a couple, this was created for you.

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56 Compliments to Encourage Your Spouse

Strengthen emotional intimacy with simple words that build up your spouse.

The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®

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Sexual Intimacy Isn’t Optional...It’s Essential

Learn how neglecting this pillar can quietly erode your closeness and connection.

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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