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New Positions, Positive Words + More

Published 19 days ago • 1 min read

Best of the Year!

Check out the top content from 2025 👇

3 New Sex Position Ideas

Try one of these creative positions to strengthen your closeness and connection.

47 Positive Words to Describe Your Spouse

Choose an uplifting word to speak over your spouse today!

Feel Close Again Without Awkward Conversations

Most couples don’t need to talk more. They just need a better way to talk.

On December 28, we’re releasing a new emotional intimacy program designed for couples who want real conversations and genuine connection…

Communication Reset helps you move from polite, logistics-only check-ins to deeper emotional intimacy and closeness.

You’ll learn how to…

  • Share what’s really on your heart
  • Listen in ways that build safety and trust
  • Reconnect in the small, everyday moments

If 2026 is the year you want to feel close and united as a couple, this was created for you.

Launching soon.

56 Compliments to Encourage Your Spouse

Strengthen emotional intimacy with simple words that build up your spouse.

The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®

Discover the power this framework has to transform you, your spouse, and your marriage.

Sexual Intimacy Isn’t Optional...It’s Essential

Learn how neglecting this pillar can quietly erode your closeness and connection.

▶️ Secret Techniques To Save Your Marriage

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📥 24 Ideas for a Stronger Marriage in 2026

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When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now​
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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