MAJOR marriage threat in your back pocket


Your phone has a lot of great features. 📲

It can store photos, help you navigate town, keep you connected with loved ones, and so much more.

But what happens when your relationship with your smartphone becomes more important than your relationship with your spouse?

In today's article, we're discussing the impact of phone addiction on your marriage.

We'll also share some practical ways to set tech boundaries and restore intimacy if this has been a struggle for you.

Love you guys,

Tony & Alisa

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These days, smartphones, screens, and technology are ever-present.

So it’s no surprise that most couples feel like phone addiction threatens their marriage.

According to a recent survey, a staggering 69% of couples in the ONE Family feel like they struggle with phone addiction themselves.

Even more glaring, a whopping 78% believe their spouse is battling the same addiction.

This isn’t just harmless scrolling.

Phone addiction is a real threat to the foundation of your marriage.

And unless you take action, it will likely only get worse.

Now, it might feel like the odds are stacked against you.

So let’s explore the ins and outs of phone addiction, how it impacts your marriage, and what you can do to get your phone usage under control.

Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family have morning sex regularly?

A. 8%

B. 26%

C. 44%

D. 62%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

Show Your Spouse Some Love 💌

Love notes are a small but powerful tool you can keep in your marriage toolbox.

Think about it:

Those few moments you spend writing a love note demonstrate that you value and prioritize your spouse. It’s an incredible return on investment!

Love notes can also help to keep romance alive in your relationship, which is also vital for sexual intimacy.

Some notes can be sweet, while others are sexy.

If you’re not sure where to start for writing a great love note to your spouse, check out these helpful tips.

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P.S. Not sure if sex toys are your thing? No worries! Check out Episode 797 for a chat all about it. Trust us, it's worth a listen.

Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family have morning sex regularly?

A. 8%

B. 26%

C. 44%

D. 62%

Compared to the national average (10%), couples in the ONE Family report much higher frequency of regular morning sex (26%)!

There are all sorts of benefits that come from morning sex:

  • The stresses of the day haven’t work you out emotionally
  • You’re already in bed together
  • A shower and getting dressed are imminent anyway
  • Your body is relaxed

For many couples, the morning is the perfect time to occasionally have sexual intimacy.

But so many skip over it with simple excuses.

Let's talk about what keeps us back from enjoying morning sex and how to add this tool to our marriage toolbox. ⬇️

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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