We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL
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Get out of your marriage rut...
Published over 1 year ago • 3 min read
We are almost halfway through the year... 47% to be precise!
How is your marriage doing?
As we head into summer, you might already feel run down, overwhelmed, and disconnected.
There's no better time to take a deep breath and focus on doing 1 or 2 practical things to strengthen your marriage.
Whether you're feeling stuck in a rut or just looking for a little intimacy boost, this week's article has you covered.
Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa
P.S. Today is Alisa's 50th birthday! 🎉🥳 Connect with us on Instagram or Facebook to wish her a happy birthday.
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Feeling like you and your spouse have drifted apart?
Are you stuck in a rut and wishing you could get the spark back?
When you’re in this place, you need simple and practical ways to strengthen your marriage.
We’ve compiled seven ideas to help you take action and deepen the intimacy in your marriage.
By incorporating some of these tips into your marriage, you can begin to experience a happier, closer, and more passionate relationship with your spouse.
These tips, inspired by some of the best resources in the 2024 Marriage Bundle, will help you grow closer and more connected with your spouse.
(By the way, for just $35, you can get access to over $400 worth of valuable marriage resources in this year's Marriage Bundle!)
Take a cold shower Benefits include strengthening your immune function, helping sleep, speeding up your metabolism, boosting energy levels, and even making you more attractive.
Grab ice for some temperature play This technique is used to stimulate the neuroreceptors under your skin, which gives the body a rush of sensations that, during foreplay, is translated into arousal.
Go skinny dipping Getting naked more often actually improves your physical and sexual connection.
Sleep on silk sheets Did you know that silk wicks moisture and heat away twice as fast as cotton? When you sleep on silk sheets, it will keep you cool when it’s hot outside.
Run through the sprinklers together Have fun and let loose. Strengthen your recreational intimacy while playing together.
Sleep naked Reducing your body temperature can help you fall asleep faster and also help keep you from waking throughout the night.
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We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL
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