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We are almost halfway through the year... 47% to be precise!

How is your marriage doing?

As we head into summer, you might already feel run down, overwhelmed, and disconnected.

There's no better time to take a deep breath and focus on doing 1 or 2 practical things to strengthen your marriage.

Whether you're feeling stuck in a rut or just looking for a little intimacy boost, this week's article has you covered.

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Tony & Alisa

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Feeling like you and your spouse have drifted apart?

Are you stuck in a rut and wishing you could get the spark back?

When you’re in this place, you need simple and practical ways to strengthen your marriage.

We’ve compiled seven ideas to help you take action and deepen the intimacy in your marriage.

By incorporating some of these tips into your marriage, you can begin to experience a happier, closer, and more passionate relationship with your spouse.

These tips, inspired by some of the best resources in the 2024 Marriage Bundle, will help you grow closer and more connected with your spouse.

(By the way, for just $35, you can get access to over $400 worth of valuable marriage resources in this year's Marriage Bundle!)

Today's Trivia

Question: How many sex positions does the average couple rotate through?

A. 1-2 sex positions

B. 2-4 sex positions

C. 4-7 sex positions

D. 7-10 sex positions

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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Sexy Ways to Beat the Heat

In the heat of the summer, steamy sex can be boiling, but cooling things down can also be fun!

So while the temps keep rising, here are some fun ways to cool off together and get your mind off the heat. 🥵

  1. Take a cold shower
    Benefits include strengthening your immune function, helping sleep, speeding up your metabolism, boosting energy levels, and even making you more attractive.
  2. Grab ice for some temperature play
    This technique is used to stimulate the neuroreceptors under your skin, which gives the body a rush of sensations that, during foreplay, is translated into arousal.
  3. Go skinny dipping
    Getting naked more often actually improves your physical and sexual connection.
  4. Sleep on silk sheets
    Did you know that silk wicks moisture and heat away twice as fast as cotton? When you sleep on silk sheets, it will keep you cool when it’s hot outside.
  5. Run through the sprinklers together
    Have fun and let loose. Strengthen your recreational intimacy while playing together.
  6. Sleep naked
    Reducing your body temperature can help you fall asleep faster and also help keep you from waking throughout the night.

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Today's Trivia Answer

Question: How many sex positions does the average couple rotate through?

A. 1-2 sex positions

B. 2-4 sex positions

C. 4-7 sex positions

D. 7-10 sex positions

The average couple rotates between just 2-4 sexual intimacy positions.

Especially when it comes to sex positions, it’s important to know what works and what doesn’t for the two of you.

However, many couples fall into the trap of finding something that works and never continuing to explore other options.

While those same few positions might get the job done, they can become boring after many years of marriage.

Even worse, the monotony can cause you to disengage in this crucial pillar of intimacy.

Since sexual intimacy is vital to your marriage, you need to be intentional about it.

Sex is so much more than something to cross off your to-do list!

Fortunately, there are subtle shifts you can make to your positions to increase the variety.

As a result, you can renew excitement and anticipation in your sexual intimacy.

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Find us on ​Instagram ​and the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more.
  2. Connect with BOLD Wives. Make a decision today to become a BOLD Wife. When you do things begin to change! - Tap Here
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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