Fighting about money?


Hey Reader,

Why does a $50 purchase sometimes turn into a full-blown marriage fight?

Because money arguments are often about much more than the money.

In this video, we unpack what’s really happening underneath those conflicts and show you how to break the cycle before you keep having the same fight again and again.

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🤔 We're curious... Who handles most of the finances in your marriage?

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Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

P.S. Have you or your spouse ever declined physical touch with the phrase, "I’m just not a touchy feely person”? Discover 17 creative ways to boost physical intimacy... even if you're not a "touchy feely" person.

Celebrate Your Wife on Sunday

Sunday, September 20, is Wife Appreciation Day!

Here are a few simple ways to cherish her:

  • Take over “dinner duty” for a whole week.
  • Write a series of love letters to your wife.
  • Purchase some candles or soaps and encourage her to take a long shower or bath.
  • Initiate sex with your wife.
  • Dedicate an hour to just listening. (Use a conversation card deck like 88 Great Conversation Starters or TableTopics.)
  • Kiss her forehead. Kiss her anywhere. Just kiss her!

🎁 If she loves gifts, we've got you covered. Check out our favorites on Amazon here.

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

“I’m just not a touchy feely person.” How many times have you said or heard this in your marriage?

Many couples find themselves in this situation—with one or both of them feeling like physical touch isn’t an essential part of their relationship.

But it’s time to call out this statement as a flimsy excuse.

The truth is that your bodies are designed for touch.

And physical intimacy is crucial for building closeness and connection between the two of you.

If you’re not a touchy feely person, you might have written off physical intimacy because you don’t like those common touches.

Good news: That can change today!

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now​​
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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