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Divorces skyrocket in January 📈

Published about 1 month ago • 1 min read

Hey Reader,

You may have heard that January is called "Divorce Month" in the USA.

While it's true that some couples choose to walk away from their marriage in the new year, you can choose something different.

You can choose to take small steps that build the marriage you actually want.

Click below to watch today's video ▶️

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So tell us: are you showing up intentional in your marriage or are things sort of drifting?

Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

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Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

If things have been on auto-pilot, now's the time to get intentional.

Check out this article for practical baby steps you can take TODAY to strengthen one of your pillars of intimacy.

You have the power to create an extraordinary marriage.

But it starts with showing up and taking action.

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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