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Divorces skyrocket in January 📈

Published about 13 hours ago • 1 min read

Hey Reader,

You may have heard that January is called "Divorce Month" in the USA.

While it's true that some couples choose to walk away from their marriage in the new year, you can choose something different.

You can choose to take small steps that build the marriage you actually want.

Click below to watch today's video ▶️

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So tell us: are you showing up intentional in your marriage or are things sort of drifting?

Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

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Right now, couples across the country are launching small groups using The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and watching real transformation happen.

💜 In New York, a group is starting with 14 couples.

💜 A couple in North Carolina is beginning their third group.

Have you ever felt a nudge to share your marriage story and encourage other couples on their journey? This is your moment.

You don’t have to create anything from scratch. The workbook includes a complete Leader’s Guide with conversation questions, videos, and more.

What better way to kick off the year than investing in your marriage and creating space for others to grow together?

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

If things have been on auto-pilot, now's the time to get intentional.

Check out this article for practical baby steps you can take TODAY to strengthen one of your pillars of intimacy.

You have the power to create an extraordinary marriage.

But it starts with showing up and taking action.

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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