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Don’t wait for “the mood” to strike!

Published about 7 hours ago • 1 min read

Hey Reader,

We hear it from couples all the time:

"I wish we were more connected."

And yet, are you actually planning for connection so you can ensure it happens?

Click below to watch today's video ▶️

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Lots of couples wait for the right time or the right mood for connection to happen...

Except that connection rarely happens on its own.

Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

Sexual intimacy isn't just about sex!

Romance plays a huge role in keeping you connected sexually, even if intercourse can't happen (or isn't happening) right now.

In this post, you'll get 40 unique ways to romance each other:

🌇 Watch the sunset together
🧴 Give each other full-body massages
🧺 Pack a picnic lunch
🕯️ Dance by candlelight
😉 Cuddle naked under the covers
✈️ Plan a weekend getaway
✨ ...and many more!

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now​​
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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