Hey Reader,

Have you heard this story? 🏈

Fernando Mendoza, the Indiana Hoosiers’ National Championship quarterback, just finished a 16–0 season. But what’s moved people most isn’t what happened on the field.

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During games, Fernando’s dad stays seated beside his wife, Elsa, who uses a wheelchair due to multiple sclerosis.

Even during their son's biggest moments, he cheers alongside her in his seat because she can’t stand.

It got us thinking... Are you choosing your spouse even when no one's watching?

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Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

Ready to Choose Each Other Again?

Feeling stuck, disconnected, or frustrated in your marriage? You don't have to figure this out alone.

I (Alisa) am opening a limited number of Intimacy Clarity Calls this month.

It's a private, 50-minute conversation where we'll talk openly about what's really happening in your marriage.

Together, we'll:

• Identify what's driving the disconnection
• Unpack patterns impacting your intimacy
• Give you 1-2 personalized action steps to start moving forward

This isn't therapy or long-term coaching.

It’s simply a powerful conversation to help you get unstuck and move forward with confidence.

Most couples tell me: "This gave us more direction in 50 minutes than we've had in years."

Right now, I'm offering these calls at $200 (regularly $300) so more couples can get the clarity they need.

Ready to take the next step?

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

Every couple wants an extraordinary marriage. And choosing to pursue and romance your spouse is what keeps the connection strong.

You might say "I love you" every day, but what if romantic gestures don't come naturally? You're not alone.

The key is intentionality. And it doesn't have to be complicated.

Check out this 7-day challenge (with 20 creative ideas!) to help you choose your spouse in simple, meaningful ways.

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now​​
3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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