Best long-distance date ideas 🌎


Over the years, we've met many couples in the ONE Family who have been long distance at some point in their marriage.

That might look like one or both of you...

  • Traveling a lot for work
  • Being deployed
  • Caring for a relative in another city, state, or country

Whether you're apart for a week or a year, physical distance adds a new layer of complexity to staying close and connected with your spouse.

In today's article, we're sharing some long distance date ideas to keep your 6 Pillars of Intimacy® strong, even when you're miles apart.

Love you guys,

Tony & Alisa

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Being apart from your spouse is something that many couples deal with at some point in their marriage.

It could be a business trip, family obligations, military deployment, or another reason. When you’re separated from your spouse, you have to put in extra effort to keep your intimacy strong.

That’s where long distance date ideas come in handy.

Physical distance doesn’t have to mean your intimacy takes a hit. With a little creativity and effort, you can keep the romance alive and your love strong even when you’re long distance.

Approximately two-thirds (63%) of the ONE Family have spent at least a week apart from their spouse. So, if that’s you, you’re in good company!

Click below to discover some of the ONE Family’s top ideas for staying close and connected with your spouse, even if they’re miles away.

Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of the ONE Family has used a pillow, ramp, or wedge to enhance sex positions?

A. 28%

B. 47%

C. 66%

D. 85%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of the ONE Family has used a pillow, ramp, or wedge to enhance sex positions?

A. 28%

B. 47%

C. 66%

D. 85%

Less than half of the ONE Family has tried using sex furniture to enhance their sex positions.

Sex pillows and wedges are game changers in marriage.

They change your physical perspective during sex—no matter the time of day, location, or position—and therefore change your sexual experience.

Something as simple as elevating your head, torso, pelvic area, or even your legs can create a brand-new experience for the two of you.

As a result, your sexual intimacy changes, and your marriage grows stronger.

Sex pillows, wedges, and ramps have incredible benefits, yet 53% of the ONE Family has never tried using these items during sex.

That means 53% of you are missing out on benefits like these:

  • Improved sexual experience
  • New possibilities for more pleasure
  • Deeper and more intense thrusting
  • Added support for new and familiar positions
  • Reduced or eliminated body aches and pains during sex

Let's change that!

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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