Make Love This Christmas 🔥


This Christmas, give a gift that actually strengthens your marriage—not just for one night, but for the long haul.

Our Romantic Gift Guide features some of our all-time favorites:

  • Überlube
  • Liberator furniture
  • And other intimacy essentials

These gifts are designed to deepen your sexual connection. And they're tools you can reach for again and again!

Order by December 17 to ensure your gifts arrive in time for Christmas.

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Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family would rather have sex before a date than afterward?

A. 15%

B. 35%

C. 55%

D. 75%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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In this gift guide for married couples, you’ll discover some of the most romantic gift ideas to express your love and deepen your intimacy this holiday season.

Whether it’s a small gesture or an extravagant surprise, the thought and effort put into selecting a meaningful gift for your spouse can convey your love in a profound way.

Holiday shopping doesn't have to mean endless scrolling and second-guessing. We've done the work for you.

Our Amazon Storefront is organized into 13 easy-to-browse categories:

  • Lubes & oils
  • Bedroom accessories
  • Stocking stuffers
  • Unique gifts
  • Toys & sexy games
  • Intimate apparel for him & her
  • And more!

No more wondering if it's worth it or if it actually works. These are items tried and loved by the ONE Family.

🎁 Order by Wednesday, December 17 to ensure your gifts arrive in time for Christmas.

Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family would rather have sex before a date than afterward?

A. 15%

B. 35%

C. 55%

D. 75%

In almost every romantic movie that we’ve seen, the date goes something like this:

  • The man and woman get all dressed up for one another...
  • They go out for a date to dinner and a show...
  • Then head home to have hot, steamy sex.

Sound familiar?

But who said that your sexual intimacy has to come at the end of the date night?

We say it’s time to switch it up!

🍆🍩 Would sex before date night be a game changer in your marriage?

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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