"How do I romance my husband?"

I (Alisa) have coached countless women who struggle to answer this question.

Romance plays a huge role in your entire marriage, including sexual intimacy, so knowing the answer is important!

But if your husband doesn't know how he likes to be romanced (or he's hesitant to tell you), then you might have no idea where to begin.

Don't worry. 😉

In today's article, I'm spilling some of the best-kept romance secrets that husbands have shared with us about what they enjoy.

Love you guys,

Tony & Alisa

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Romancing your husband looks so simple in movies and shows, doesn’t it?

Just walk around in lingerie all day or turn every kiss into something more. For most of us, that’s just not realistic. (If it is for you, right on!)

Instead, most of us wrack our brains wondering, “How do I romance my husband? What does he like? Is it just about sex for him?”

Husbands and wives experience romance differently, but that doesn’t mean your husband doesn’t want to be romanced.

And to answer your question: No, it’s not just about sex!

Romance is all about those intentional, meaningful things you do that silently say, “I love you.”

But here’s the tricky part: Every husband is different. And to make things trickier, our husbands continue to change over time.

Here’s the good news: Romancing your husband doesn’t have to be complicated.

Today's Trivia

Question: A study from the University of Buffalo found that couples divorce nearly ___% of the time when one of the spouses is a heavy drinker.

A. 35%

B. 50%

C. 65%

D. 80%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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Today's Trivia Answer

Question: A study from the University of Buffalo found that couples divorce almost ___% of the time when one of the spouses is a heavy drinker.

A. 35%

B. 50%

C. 65%

D. 80%

There's an anonymous quote that says, “Alcohol is a perfect solvent. It destroys marriages, families and careers.”

A study by the University at Buffalo Research Institute on Addictions (RIA) determined a marriage is more likely to end in divorce if one party is a heavy drinker.

Here's what they found:

"Over the course of the nine-year study, nearly 50 percent of couples where only one partner drank more heavily wound up divorcing..."

Of course, a “heavy drinker” is defined as six or more drinks consumed at one time or drinking until intoxicated.

If alcohol is affecting The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® in your marriage, then it’s time to talk about it.

There are trained professionals who can assist the two of you with the alcohol use in your marriage.

Don’t sit back and wait for something to happen.

Both of you will need to be intentional and take action for things to change.

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