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😬 87% of Spouses Struggle With This

Published 6 months ago • 2 min read

There's no two ways about it. Sex is healthy for a marriage.

But getting things started? That can be the tricky part.

Too tired? Too busy? We've been there.

Maybe you’re worried about rejection.

Or perhaps, like many in the ONE Family, you simply don’t know where to begin.

If you can relate, check out these 21 simple (but sexy) ideas for how to initiate sex.

Love you guys,

Tony & Alisa

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There seems to be endless information available about how to have great sex with your spouse.

But for many couples, the hardest part is knowing how to initiate sex.

You might often feel too tired, preoccupied, or even too busy to initiate sex regularly.

Some marriages can even face serious rough patches if one (or both) of the spouses does not know how to initiate.

Ultimately, sex is part of a healthy marriage.

So the next time you are ready to initiate sex, try a new approach and see what happens!

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Question: Research shows that going on a date even just once a month can lower your changes of divorce by how much?

A. 3%

B. 10%

C. 14%

D. 19%

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Today's Trivia Answer

Question: Research shows that going on a date even just once a month can lower your changes of divorce by how much?

A. 3%

B. 10%

C. 14%

D. 19%

Going on a date even just once a month can lower your chances of divorce by 14%!

Here are some other amazing insights about married couples who spend time together weekly:

  • They report having a high-quality relationship.
  • They experience better levels of communication.
  • And they are 3.5x more likely to report being happy in their relationship.

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​Here's how to revamp your recreational intimacy >> ​

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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