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Go beyond flowers and chocolate!

These fun gift ideas show your spouse they're truly special.

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We're gearing up for some great events in February and March. Check below to see if we'll be at a church near you!

Omaha, Nebraska

February 14-15, 2025 — Strong Marriages Conference (Love Church)

Experience two transformative days where you'll be inspired and equipped with practical tools to strengthen your relationship, deepen intimacy, and reignite your connection.

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Austin, Texas

February 22, 2025 — The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Masterclass (LifeFamily Church)

The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Marriage Masterclass will equip you to create your own extraordinary marriage. You’ll learn more about the “glue” that holds marriages together: sex, love and commitment.

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Tulsa, Oklahoma

March 1, 2025 — Becoming ONE Marriage Conference (The Connecting Co. Church)

🚨 Only 20 spots left! Connect with your spouse and build the strongest possible foundation for your relationship. You can expect practical teachings, powerful worship, and an environment that is fun, engaging, and inspiring.

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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