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What does porn addiction look like?

Published 26 days ago • 4 min read

Over the years, we've talked about how pornography has impacted our marriage.

Many of you have shared your stories with us too.

Pornography addiction is serious, and it can be incredibly hard to overcome.

In this week's article, we share some signs and symptoms of porn addiction—and several resources to help you move forward together.

Love you guys,

Tony & Alisa

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Pornography is rampant in our society.

It’s easily accessible. And it’s easily hidden.

Porn addiction can silently infiltrate your marriage, destroying the trust and intimacy that you’ve spent years building.

But what does porn addiction truly look like? And how can you get help to overcome this addiction and restore your marriage?

Read now to discover six signs and symptoms of porn addiction.

It’s crucial to know what to look for so you can acknowledge the addiction for what it is.

Then, you can explore resources to help you move forward as a couple.

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A. 26%

B. 43%

C. 60%

D. 77%

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Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family have a will in place should one spouse pass away?

A. 26%

B. 43%

C. 60%

D. 77%

Estate planning is difficult to talk about. That might be why only about a quarter of the ONE Family has done it...

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It’s okay if you are thinking to yourself “I don’t want to think about this” or “I don’t have a lot of money so I don’t need to plan”.

Those are all natural reactions to the thought of planning for your death. However, they are also excuses.

Many times these excuses prevent us from recognizing that it’s essential to have a plan in place to support those that you love the most at a time when they need it most.

It’s a tough conversation, but it is one that every couple needs to have.

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in San Diego, CA.

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