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💸 26 Money Questions to Ask Your Spouse

Published 17 days ago • 3 min read

Extraordinary couples take steps to strengthen all of their 6 Pillars of Intimacy®... including financial intimacy!

Don't freak out yet.

We know money conversations can be hard for lots of couples.

But with consistent practice, you can hone your money conversation skills and turn this Pillar into a source of teamwork and intimacy.

Not sure where to start?

Check out today's article for 26 money conversation to have with your spouse for deeper financial intimacy.

Love you guys,

Tony & Alisa

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It’s time to enhance your financial intimacy as a couple!

For many couples, financial intimacy often falls off the radar.

Other areas of marriage, such as emotional or sexual intimacy, tend to take precedence.

But The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® are all interconnected. That means when one pillar has cracks, it weakens the others.

In other words, when you ignore financial intimacy, you put the rest of your marriage at risk.

The 26 questions below can help prompt meaningful money conversations that every married couple should be having.

Today's Trivia

Question: Among married couples, what percentage have oral sex at least monthly?

A. 53%

B. 65%

C. 79%

D. 84%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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Today's Trivia Answer

Question: Among married couples, what percentage have oral sex at least monthly?

A. 53%

B. 65%

C. 79%

D. 84%

When we surveyed couples in the ONE Family, 84% of you said you have oral sex at least once a month!

In addition, we found that 88% of those married couples use oral sex primarily as foreplay and not the main event.

There’s no right or wrong when it comes to oral sex, but don’t let stigmas or myths rob you of better intimacy.

You can’t just talk about oral sex once and be done.

It’s a conversation you will come back to time and again as you grow as a couple.

Let’s be real about it — and start the conversation with your spouse today.

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in San Diego, CA.

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