47 words that could change your marriage


Hey Reader,

You have heard Tony say it hundreds of times... on the podcast, at events, and every time he introduces me to someone new.

"My beautiful wife Alisa."

That is an intentional choice he made years ago to speak a positive word over me. And slowly, it changed the way I see myself.

That is the power of what you speak over your spouse.

We just dropped a new video with some great options to get you started. Go check it out!

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We're curious... what gets in the way of you complimenting your spouse? No judgment. (And your response is anonymous.)

Share your answer in the poll below ⬇️

Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

P.S. If your sex life feels routine, boring, or obligatory... Check out our 6 practical tips to get the fire blazing again.

Go Deeper with Your 6 Pillars

The facts do not lie: Sex boosts your immunity, reduces stress, increases your lifespan… and it is just plain fun.

So why does it feel like such a chore for so many couples?

If sex has become routine, boring, or obligatory, we get it.

There was a time when that was our story too.

Sex was the last thing on our to-do list. The thing we got to if there was time… and there was never time.

But your sex life does not have to stay that way. Check out our 6 practical tips to get the fire blazing again.

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage. Transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion. - Tap Here Now
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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