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Published about 2 months ago • 1 min read

Hey Reader,

There is a topic that most couples would rather avoid altogether.

And yet... it comes up too often in marriage coaching (and divorce court) to ignore.

Money.

Financial stress, debt, and financial infidelity are some of the most common cited reasons for a marriage ending.

But money talks don't have to divide you. They can actually bring you closer together.

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🤔 What is your biggest money challenge as a couple right now?

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Love you guys,
Tony & Alisa

P.S. Got an anniversary coming up? Here are 35 meaningful anniversary gifts based on the year!​

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Celebrating your wedding anniversary is one of the most meaningful traditions in marriage.

The traditional anniversary themes provide a beautiful framework for gift-giving, but this list puts a spin on each year’s theme for some modern ideas and inspiration!

Whether you’re newlyweds or celebrating decades together, this list of anniversary gifts by year will help you pick the perfect gift that honors your marriage.

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