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Want better sex? It might be time to change your perspective... literally!

For the last several years, sex furniture has been a tool in our marriage toolbox. 🛠️

It's an exciting and fun way to enhance our sexual intimacy and switch things up from time to time.

If you're not sure how to bring up this conversation with your spouse (or find the right style of sex furniture for you), you'll want to check out today's article.

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Tony & Alisa

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Throughout your marriage, the two of you have likely explored many aspects of sexual intimacy.

You might have broadened the idea of when you have sex. (It doesn’t just have to be at night!)

And you might have experimented with having sex in new places outside your bedroom.

You’ve probably even attempted new sex positions over the years.

Shaking things up when it comes to sex is great for a variety of reasons. It helps you strengthen your intimacy, develop communication skills, reconnect as spouses, and more.

But there’s another way to shake things up that you might never have considered...

👋 Say hello to sex pillows, wedges, and ramps.

Today's Trivia

Question: What benefit can you expect from naked cuddling?

A. Increased oxytocin levels

B. Decreased cortisol levels

C. Stronger immune system

D. All of the above

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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How to Connect Physically When You're Not "Touchy Feely"

“I’m just not a touchy feely person.” How many times have you said or heard this in your marriage?

Many couples find themselves in this situation—with one or both of them feeling like physical touch isn’t an essential part of their relationship.

The truth is that your bodies are designed for touch, and physical intimacy is crucial for building closeness and connection between the two of you.

Even if you don’t think touch is important, it plays a significant role in improving your health, reducing stress, and bringing you two closer together.

So here are 17 meaningful touches for spouses who aren't "touchy feely..."

1. Sit Closer Together

2. Play Footsie Under the Table

3. Help with Clothes

4. Link Arms While Walking

5. Hugging Before Bed

6. High-Fives

7. Create a Secret Signal

8. Pat on the Back

9. Cuddle for a Few Minutes

10. Dance Together

11. Hair Touching

12. Massage

13. Brush Against Each Other

14. Playful Poking or Tickling

15. Warm Their Towel or Blanket

16. Gentle Shoulder Squeeze

17. Casual Touch in the Car

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Most people wouldn’t think twice about getting a fitness plan or a financial plan...

And yet in marriage, the average couple waits 6 years before they reach out for help.

That's 6 years of missing out on deeper intimacy, more fun, and a stronger relationship.

Don't let time slip by when you could be experiencing an extraordinary marriage.

If you've been wanting to improve your marriage but haven't taken action yet, this is your sign.

It’s time for you to create a marriage plan that works for you. It’s time for you to have a plan that doesn’t address one area of your marriage but all 6 Pillars of Intimacy.⁠

Don't waste another day. It's time to experience the extraordinary marriage you desire.

Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What benefit can you expect from naked cuddling?

A. Increased oxytocin levels 🎉

B. Decreased cortisol levels 🎉

C. Stronger immune system 🎉

D. All of the above 🎉

When was the last time you and your spouse took off all your clothes just to cuddle?

Cuddling naked can seem like a simple act of connection, but the benefits affect your marriage in many ways—from emotional intimacy to sexual intimacy and beyond.

It’s time to examine how you and your spouse connect on a physical level.

You might find that naked cuddling is what you’ve been missing!

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

  1. Join the ​private ONE Family Facebook group​. Connect with others in the ONE Family who are strengthening their 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and more. - Tap Here
  2. Discover a proven method to keep (or restore) a happy, healthy, deeply satisfying connection with your spouse starting today. - Tap Here Now
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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