20 Gift Ideas Your Wife Will Love 😍


Husbands... Christmas is coming.

We know it can be tricky to find the perfect gift for your wife, especially if she's dealing with hormone shifts and symptoms caused by perimenopause.

If you're looking for gifts that can help with that, we have good news!

We've rounded up the top gifts that wives in the ONE Family have recommended to help your wife feel comforted, cherished, and confident throughout this stage of life.

Check out all 20 menopause gift ideas here!

Love you guys,

Tony & Alisa

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Looking for something to give your wife this Christmas that helps her navigate the menopause journey with confidence?

We've got you covered.

Check out these top menopause gifts, recommended by wives in the ONE Family.

From cooling sheets to soothing balms and indulgent self-care items, this gift guide includes items to make perimenopause a little easier.

Today's Trivia

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family consider an "at home date" to be a real date?

A. 60%

B. 73%

C. 86%

D. 99%

⬇️ Scroll to the end for the answer.

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How to Cultivate Gratitude in Your Marriage

Couples who ​express gratitude​ can expect a better relationship, better health, and a more positive outlook on life in general.

With that in mind, here are 3 tips to help you cultivate gratitude in your marriage this month (and throughout the year):

1. Say “thank you” in the moment.

When you catch your spouse doing something you appreciate, say it! Remember, you can express appreciation for even the simplest of things.

2. Write down your gratitude.

Written appreciation can have lasting effects. A note of gratitude can deepen your emotional intimacy with your spouse.

It doesn’t matter if you jot it down on a sticky note, type it in a text, or write it in a letter. Just do it!

3. Accept appreciation from your spouse.

Gratitude benefits both the giver and the recipient. So, while you seek to thank your spouse more often, allow them to do the same.

Sometimes, it can be easy to blow off a compliment. Instead, acknowledge and accept your spouse's appreciation.

❤️ These three simple steps can help you become a stronger team and build a healthier marriage.

Strengthening Your 6 Pillars:

Prioritize Your Marriage This Holiday Season

With the holidays approaching, it can be easy to let your marriage take a back seat. But if you’re not careful, you might find yourselves fully disconnected by the time 2025 rolls around.

In fact, January is when more couples seek divorce than at any other time of the year. Lawyers call it “Divorce Month.”

Marriage Coaching is a chance to focus on each other—even amidst the holiday craze—and learn how to reconnect and strengthen your relationship, no matter what you’ve gone through.

If you’ve been feeling like roommates, struggling with a lack of intimacy, or constantly sweeping things under the rug… you deserve to know how to restore your marriage to something greater.

Don’t wait until January to start working on your relationship.

Take the courageous step toward the marriage you both dream of. Apply for marriage coaching today and start building a stronger future, together.

P.S. Don’t let another holiday season pass with your relationship on the back burner. Take that first step now. Your marriage is worth it.

Today's Trivia Answer

Question: What percentage of couples in the ONE Family consider an "at home date" to be a real date?

A. 60%

B. 73%

C. 86%

D. 99%

Dating was probably easy when your relationship first began. Every interaction was new and exciting.

After years of marriage, it can be challenging to come up with fresh date ideas.

But it’s possible to have fun dating your spouse no matter how long you’ve been married—even with at-home dates!

And good news... 86% of the ONE Family believe that at-home dates still "count" as real dates.

Here are some tips to make your at-home dates fun and enjoyable:

  • Get naked! Or at least wear comfy clothes if you want. That's the benefit of an at-home date.
  • Be creative. Build a fort in the living room, take a bath together, or sit on the porch and watch the stars.
  • Make special food together. Bake cookies, make dinner for your love, or create a charcuterie board and then enjoy it.

A little creativity, planning, and effort can go a long way in helping you create a marriage filled with lasting fun and excitement.

Click here for more at-home date ideas >>>

When you're ready, here are 3 ways we can help you...

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  2. Discover a proven method to keep (or restore) a happy, healthy, deeply satisfying connection with your spouse starting today. - Tap Here Now
  3. Work with Alisa One-on-One. If you'd like to work directly with Alisa to improve your marriage... just reply to this message and put "One-on-One" in the subject line... share a little about what's going on in your marriage and she'll get you all the details.

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Hey we're Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

We are the co-authors of the Amazon best seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® and 7 Days of Sex Challenge book. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. We write, podcast, and coach couples around the world. We have been married since 1996 and have a son and a daughter. We live in Naples, FL

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